Paul Mailley

1974 - 2009
LocationPaisley.
Age35 years
Date of Birth22/01/1974
Date of Death19/09/2009
Visitors768 since 18/10/2009
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THIS MEMORIAL PAGE WAS SET UP ON BEHALF OF MY DEAR BROTHER PAUL MAILLEY WHO SADLY PASSED AWAY ON THE
19TH OF SEPTEMBER,2009.PAUL WAS A MUCH LOVED SON,AND A DEAR BIG BROTHER,AND A MUCH LOVED UNCLE.I,M
PAULS YOUNGER BROTHER AND DECIDED TO SET THIS PAGE UP SIMPLY FOR MYSELF,MY FAMILY AND ALSO FRIENDS
TO EITHER LIGHT A CANDLE OR LEAVE A TRIBUTE.SOME THINGS I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH PEOPLE WHO DONT
KNOW IS THAT MY BROTHER PAUL ALWAYS TRIED HIS VERY BEST IN LIFE TO KEEP HIMSELF FIT AND HEALTHY.PAUL
RAN TWO MARATHONS OVER THE YEARS HE WAS HERE.HE WAS SO GENTLE AND CARING,AND LOVED OUR
MUM,DAD,SHARON,LUCI,AND MY MUM AND DADS WEE DOG SUSIE..EVERY TIME PAUL PAID HIS WEE VISITS TO MY
MUMS HOUSE HE LOVED TO RAID THE FRIDGE AND SEE HOW EVERY BODY WAS GETTING ON WAY LIFE..HE WAS QUITE
A SHY PERSON AND SEEMED TO COME OUT HIS SHELL A WEE BIT MORE AFTER A FEW SHANDYS..PAUL LOVED
SPENDING CHRISTMAS TIME UP IN OUR MUM AND DADS HOUSE AND LOVED MY DAD PICKING HIM UP TO BRING HIM UP
TO THE HOUSE..ANYTHING PAUL TURNED HIS HAND TO WAS MOSTLY DESIGNER LABELLED,AND LOVED TO BE UP TO
DATE WITH FASHION..PAUL MORE OR LESS WORKED FROM HE LEFT SCHOOL AT THE AGE OF 16..HE WAS OVER THE
MOON WHEN HE PASSED HIS DRIVING TEST,AND GOT TO DRIVE MY DADS CAR,BUT NOT ON A REGULAR BASIS
OBVIOUSLY.HE USED TO GO OUT JOGGING A LOT ASWELL,AND JUST GOT A BUZZ OUT OF FEELING GOOD ON A
NATURAL HIGH..HE WAS WELL LIKED BY ALL THE FRIENDS HE HAD TOO..BEFORE I GO I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY
THAT WEE ALL MISS MY BIG BROTHER SO MUCH IT HURTS DEEP INSIDE..ITS JUST SO UNFAIR HOW SUCH A LOVELY
PERSON LIKE PAUL CAN JUST GET TOOK OUT YOUR ARMS LIKE ITS NOTHING.AND PAUL WAS ONLY 35YRS OLD WHEN
HE SADLY PASSED AWAY..YOUR SORELY MISSED PAUL FROM YOUR WEE MUM,AND YOUR DAD,YOUR WEE BROTHER
MARK,WEE SISTER SHAZA,WEE LUCI,AND WEE SUSIE WONG..YOUR SADLY MISSED PAUL AND NEVER EVER FORGOTTEN
EVERY DAY..OUR MEMORIES OF YOU ARE TREASURED ASWELL,AND REST IN PEACE PAUL. THE REST SPEAKS FOR
ITSELF..FROM YOUR WEE BROTHER MARK MAILLEY,I LOVE AND MISS YOU PAULxx TILL WEE MEET AGAIN PAUL FROM
YOUR MUM,DAD,MARK,SHARON,LUCI,WEE SUSIExxx YOU WERE TAKEN AWAY FROM US FAR TO SOON,NO MORE PAINxx
SHINE LIKE A STAR PAUL,DOWN ON US LIKE A GUARDIAN ANGELxxxxx YOU WERE A GREAT GUY PAUL AND LOVED BY
MANYxx


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DAYS TOO REMEMBER

FOR MONDAY

Your presence I miss,
Your memory I treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.

FOR TUESDAY

Loving you is easy,
We do it every day,
Missing you is a heartache,
That never goes away.

FOR WEDNESDAY

No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why.

FOR THURSDAY

Memory is a lovely lane,
Where hearts are ever true,
A lane I so often travel down,
Because it leads to you.


FOR FRIDAY

Wings Of The Angels

A gentle wind blew cross the land
Reaching out to take a hand
For on the winds the angels came
Calling out a mother's name.

Left behind, the children's tears
Loving memories of the years
Of joy and love, a life well spent
And now to God a mother's sent.

On angel's wings, a heavenly flight
The journey home, towards the light
To those who weep, a life is gone
But in God's love, 'tis but the dawn.

FOR SATURDAY

If I Had One Last Day

If I had one last day
To tell you what's inside
I'd tell you that I'm sorry
For all the times I've lied

I'd tell you that I need you
To hold my hand today
I'd tell you that I love you
I'd ask you, please, to stay

You'd look at me and smile
The way you always would
And say "I'd love to stay,
If only I really could"

Then you'd laugh the way you did
Whenever I was blue
You'd wipe my tears and whisper softly,
"Don't cry, I love you too"

If I had one last day
I'd love you from the start
I'd stop hiding how I feel
I'd say what's in my heart

If I had one last day,
I'd say my last good-bye
And that even though you are far away,
In my heart, you'll never die.

FOR SUNDAY

Cry Not My Friend

When you wake up tomorrow
And I am no where to be found
When you scream out my name
To the emptiness around

When every beat inside your heart
Is skipping and unsure
Cry not my friend for I am here,
Inside your love so pure

When the waves that used to touch our feet
Have gone back out to sea
When everything you once held dear
Was lost when you lost me

When the sun that once lit up your face
Is setting far away
Cry not my Friend for time shall pass,
But my love for you will stay

When age arrives and children play
And pain creeps up on you
When loved ones show you happiness
That your life never knew

When all of your expectations are met,
No matter what the pain
Cry not my friend, for I am waiting
To hold you once again

When beauty in your eyes turn grey
And all of the rainbow, white
When strong undying hearts
No longer feel an urge to fight

When winter snows become more pain
Than beauty in your heart
Cry not my friend, for I am here
And we will never ever part... xxx
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weepete stewart buddie and friend

Peter Stewart (Close Friend) 1 week ago

When You feel Lonely

When a person you love passes away
Look to the night sky on a clear day.
The star that to you, appears to be bright,
Will be your loved one,
Looking upon you during the night.
The lights of heaven are what shows through
As your loved one watches all that you do.
When you feel lonely for the one that you love,
Look to the Heavens in the night sky above

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This has been a tough week for me mate,
but I got through it, all you lot up there must have been rooting for me.
But it is true every cloud has a silver lining, I said goodbye this week to
my grans 2nd husband ( haven't seen him in years as he never wanted much to do with us after gran died ) but for her I went to the funeral and as a result he still had loads of stuff that belonged to gran, so it is all coming home to me :'( I went to try and lay my gran to rest finally her last link and have ended up with more memories.
Life is never easy just hope the here after is easier as preparing to go through the same again in unthinkable.

it is very true what they say though, if you love in life you will always be loved and I can assure you Paul you will always be loved as your heart was huge and had space for everyone.
Give big angels hugs to all your loved ones let them know you are safe and well.
Love and huge big hugs Karen x x x

Karen McClure (Friend) 1 week ago

FOR MY DEAR BROTHER PAUL MAILLEYxxxxx

PAUL YOU WERE SADLY TAKEN AWAY,AND WEE ARE ALL LEFT HERE NOT KNOWING WHAT TO SAY..YOU WERE SUCH A KIND,GENTLE,CARING,GUY WHO WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR OUR DEAR FAMILY.YOU ARE SO SADLY MISSED PAUL,OUR DEAR SON,BROTHER,UNCLE,,GRANDSON,NEPHEW,COUSIN,AND A BEST FRIEND FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS PAUL..ITS SO TRUE WHAT THIS PAGE SAYS,YOU WERE TAKEN AWAY FROM US FAR TOO SOON,AND SO SUDDEN,AND SO YOUNG..ITS SO UNFAIR HOW SUCH A GUY LIKE YOURSELF CAN JUST BE HERE ONE DAY AND TAKEN AWAY FROM US THE NEXT DAY..YOUR FOREVER IN OUR THOUGHTS ANDS PRAYERS PAUL FROM,MUM,DAD,MARK,SHAZA,WEE LUCI..WEE ALL MISS YOU MORE EACH DAY,FROM MARKxxxxx

Mark Mailley (Brother) 2 weeks ago

the son friend ande buddie too many

It can`t rain all the time

We walked the narrow path,
beneath the smoking skies.
Sometimes you can barely tell the difference
between darkness and light.
Do you have faith
in what we believe?
The truest test is when we cannot,
when we cannot see.

I hear pounding feet in the,
in the streets below, and the,
and the women crying and the,
and the children know that there,
that there's something wrong,
and it's hard to belive that love will prevail.

Oh, when I'm lonely,
I lie awake at night
and I wish you were here.
I miss you.
Can you tell me
is there something more to belive in?
Or is this all there is?

In the pounding feet, in the,
In the streets below, and the,
And the window breaks and,
And a woman falls, there's,
There's something wrong, it's,
It's so hard to belive that love will prevail.


Last night I had a dream.
You came into my room,
you took me into your arms.
Whispering and kissing me,
and telling me to still belive.
But then the emptiness of a burning sea
Against which we see
our darkest of sadness.

Until I felt safe and warm.
I fell asleep in your arms.
When I awoke I cried again for you were gone.
Oh, can you hear me?

Oh it can't rain all the time.
The sky won't fall forever.
And though the night seems long,
Your tears won't fall,
Your tears won't fall, forever.

FLY ANGEL FLY xxxxxxxx

poem 4 OUR PAUL

Peter Stewart (Close Friend) 2 weeks ago

Hey Paul
just passing by to say hello and to tell you about the dream i had !
i was dreaming about the nite you came to our house in linwel and you and my dad were going to go batter someone but instead you all just got wrecked and kept us up all nite.
always in my thoughts say hi to ma da will you
look after your family the need you now xxxxxxxxxxx

Deborah Bryson 2 weeks ago

FOR MY DEAR BIG BROTHER AND BEST FRIEND PAUL MAILLEYxx

PAUL THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO WORDS ON THIS PLANET THAT WOULD BE ABLE TO EXPLAIN THE WAY I FEEL RIGHT NOW ABOUT THE WAY YOU WERE SADLY TAKEN AWAY FROM US,SO YOUNG AND SO SUDDEN..IT,S SO PAINFUL TRYING TO EVEN SAY TO YOURSELF THAT MY BROTHER HAS BEEN TAKEN AWAY FOR ABSOLUTELY NOTHING..IT,S SO HARD AND SO SAD RIGHT NOW PAUL,AND I HOPE TO OUR DEAR GOD THAT YOUR LOOKING OUT FOR US MATE..WEE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU PAUL,YOU WERE SO SPECIAL TO THE LOT OF US.FROM YOUR WEE MUM,DAD,BROTHER MARK,WEE SISTER SHARON,WEE LUCIxxx WHEREVER YOU ARE PAUL PLEASE LOOK AFTER US FROM YOUR LOVING BROTHER MARK,AND LOVING SISTER SHARON,YOUR WEE MUM,AND YOUR DADDY,AND YOUR WEE NIECE LUCIxxxxx

Mark Mailley (Brother) 3 weeks ago

missing you xx

hi paul, just poppin in with sum love for you, u r so sadly missed by everyone, hope there is a better life up there, i think of you everyday n will never forget you paul, god bless xxxxxxxx

Jacquii Fox (Friend) 3 weeks ago

TO PAUL,MY DEAR BROTHERxx

PAUL EVERY DAY I WAKE UP IN MY BED,THE FIRST THING THAT I THINK OF IS YOU IN MY HEAD.I WISH YOU WERE STILL HERE,I MISS YOU SO SINCERE..THINKING OF YOU PAUL EVERY DAY MATE..LOVE MARKxxxxx

Mark Mailley (Brother) 3 weeks ago

FOR MY DEAR BIG BROTHER PAUL MAILLEYxx

GOOD MORNING TO YOU PAUL.WHEREVER YOU ARE,PLEASE SHINE DOWN ON US LIKE A BIG BRIGHT STAR..PAUL I,M SITTING HERE FEELING SO SAD,BUT THE MEMORIES OF YOU,ARE MAKING ME FEEL GLAD,OF THE BIG BROTHER I ONCE HAD..PAUL I PRAY THAT YOU REMEMBER MY LUCKY NUMBER SEVEN,I PRAY YOUR LOOKED AFTER UP THERE IN HEAVEN..PLEASE LOOK AFTER US PAUL,AS WEE ALL MISS YOU MATE,YOU WERE SO SPECIAL TO USxxxxx

Mark Mailley (Brother) 3 weeks ago

FOR YOU PAUL MY DEAR BIG BROTHERxxx

PAUL ITS FRIDAY NIGHT AND ITS THE DAY BEFORE MY 34TH BIRTHDAY AND I,M PLAYING OUR FAVOURITE SONG OBSESSION WHAT YOU MEAN TO ME.PAUL I MISS YOU SO TERRIBLY MATE.PLEASE WAIT FOR MExxx from your wee brother markXXXXX

Mark Mailley (Brother) 3 weeks ago
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